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Living Now !!!

 

It is now time, more than ever before to! FOCUS on what you like about your life. Think about what you would like increased in your life. Don’t focus on the negativity of the past or on what you don’t have. Think of what you enjoy and what you desire. Be thankful for what you have now, even though you may feel like you don’t have enough love, money, time, etc. Be grateful for what you do have and see yourself as having more.

If you want more love, be more loving. If you want more time, be more relaxed and enjoy the time you have. If you want more money, enjoy the money you have and always trust that you will have more than enough to meet your needs.

The past can be a source of entertainment. It can also show us certain recurrent patterns in ourselves. The important thing to focus on is what am I doing with my life NOW? How can this knowledge of the past (whether past lives or childhood) help me be a better person and live a happier and more fulfilled life NOW?

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Personal Responsibility and Blame

 

Part 4 of 5

Blame is projecting onto others, (pointing the finger at) what

we have attracted into our lives for our  growth and learning

So what is blame?

  • Blame is victim-hood.
  • Blame is projecting onto others and avoiding the learning
  • Blame is avoidance of accountability
  • Blame is giving your free will and personal responsibility away to someone or something else.

Our western laws are set up with this victim mentality, but that does not mean it’s the truth. The truth is that we are responsible for our thoughts, feelings, and actions in the world and there is no room for blaming in that equation. The idea of taking personal  responsibility for our thoughts, feelings & actions in response to any given situation is the most empowering , pro-active perspective we can have. It takes us immediately from the victim mode to the creator mode.

When you truly understand that the world outside of you is a reflection of the world inside of you, you may react with confusion about who is to blame for the problems in your life. If you had a tumultuous and difficult childhood, you may question the validity or soundness of taking responsibility for everything you have experienced. Furthermore, the same question arises for your current relationships.

We intuitively know that blaming others is the opposite of taking responsibility, but you may not understand how to take responsibility for that which you do not truly believe you are responsible for creating. You can blame your parents for your low self-esteem, etc. and you can blame your current partner for exacerbating it with his/her inconsiderate or lackadaisical behavior. This is the well-worn modus operandi of many people–albeit resolution to an issue is impossible. Albert Einstein’s statement, on insanity is

“Doing the same thing again and again and expecting different results,”

What you avoid taking responsibility for, is out of your control.

The fly in the ointment lies with the avoidance of taking responsibility for your life here and now. Whether you blame others or blame yourself, it is an aggressive and unkind act against oneself. It sets up a situation in which it becomes difficult, if not impossible, to move beyond the burdensome feelings of blame, shame and guilt that rest below the surface of consciousness–only to pop up when triggered by a similar experience. It also puts the resolution of your emotional pain into the hands of someone else rather than yourself. Ultimately, you cannot insist that someone else take responsibility for your feelings or actions, only you can make that choice when you are ready. Meanwhile, if you want to move forward with your life you need to accept personal responsibility for your life and take all situations into your hands.

Who is better at solving the puzzles of your journey, this lifetime

THAN YOU ?

The most important step in taking full responsibility of one’s journey is to forgive those whom one blames–parents, partner, friends, colleagues, and all others.

“ Forgiveness is the key to happiness”

Gerald Jampolsky

author, of

“Love Is Letting Go of Fear.”

You can have the courage to end an abusive relationship with a partner, who may never admit wrong doing, because you are willing to take personal responsibility for how you allow yourself to be treated.

The bottom line is–love yourself enough to take responsibility for how you think, feel and behave. You deserve to love, be loved and create the life you know you deserve. Leave the resolution of the wrongs committed against you in the hands of the universe, releasing yourself to live life free of blame, shame and guilt.

These are my thoughts, please add your comments below

To Part 5 of 5…to be added next week,

so I will see you then

Personal Responsibility to Listening & Honesty

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I am the Choices I Make

At this time of uncertainty there is just so much over whelming fear manifesting in the hearts of humanity. All the ancient calendars and prophecies of diverse ancient traditions are pointing to these days as a time of great awakening and a time of great shift. In these early days of this centaury, humanity – that is you and I, are being challenged to make a choice: the choice between the path of love, community .and peace over the path of fear, revolution and survival.

When we walk the path of love and harmony we draw love and harmony to our lives. When we walk the path of fear, we attract drama, revolution, conspiracy and survival issues to us. The creative force of the Universe is impersonal and non judgmental and will give us just what we want, expect and most of all fear. What we hold in our hearts is what the universe will supply! The universe adds support to the realities that we have put into action in our minds, and by our actions, Spirit moves when we do. This is why in these days, we are challenged to live in perfect impeccability and in the highest truth possible.

  1. We must deeply consider what we are holding true in our hearts.
  2. What is our main focus and intent?
  3. What are we preparing for?
  4. What do we believe in and what do we most fear?

The answers to these questions will also be our answers to the new reality we are choosing to create for ourselves. If we don’t like the answers, this is the time to challenge our minds. We are entering a doorway,or planting seeds, through which what will manifest will be in direct proportion to what we hold in our hearts. If your dream is to live in harmony and peaceful community, you have the opportunity to apply those dreams. If you are a survivalist, you will need the food and tools you have stored and all those survival skills. If you believe in the computer – bug hysteria, you’ll create that drama. Focusing your time and energy on negative, dramatic, conspiracy- based, and survival issues will waste precious time and energy. It will anchor you deeper in the dream/hologram of fear and you’ll risk experiencing Armageddon scenarios. Fear also freezes your connection to Spirit and, thus your protection, or intuition is blocked

Walking and living the path of love is not about putting our heads in the sand and going into denial over the problems in the World. Denial is fear not love. The problems of the World are real ones that need addressing in any way we are capable. The path of love is about seeing the problems, and acting from love, compassion and non-judgment, NOT from survival or fear.

Remember, it is not WHAT we do as much as WHY we are doing it. Walking the path of love is about adding our energy to the light. It is a waste of energy to fight the darkness

“You never change anything by fighting the existing.

To change something, build a new model and make the existing obsolete”

This wisdom from Buckminster Fuller is the very reason I have dedicated so much time, energy and research to the affirmation series that I have produced which can be purchased at this site

These are my thoughts, please have your say.

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